Be yourself....!!!!

Heard this thing a lot.....from many of people encircling my world….my world within the reach of my perceptions.....what xactly does “Be yourself!!!” mean ....i really couldnt figure it out yet....i grown up having different influences on my thought process......influences on my outlook towards things…influences on my wishlist of various personalities I wanted be when I was 3-4 feet tall only….if these influences are not denied …then how can I follow the words… “Be yourself”……we always react to the same situations differently..when with the different people….and in different circumstances….so what would be those reactions are…are they personal…incidental…..cirumstantial …or again influential ….do I have a answer….sum very clever (so called) people always answer such questions with the word “depends”…which is the most crappy answer anybody could ever get ……cant u answer it straight…”depends”….all crap…while trying to be myself realized that me or any other person is made up of impressions received from various incidences in our lives……we born in colorless and purest forms …and then we change our colors with our needs like a chameleon …so as to survive ….

And in all this mundane but yet very unique things..i wanted to “Be myself”…..


Sushant describes this best...

Well said,
'Be Yourself'
Everything in this world works on Hypocracy that includes me, you and all the people involved in actions and reactions, proactive and inactive, freinds and foes. collegues and bosses. We all are followers of hypocracy than our concience. We all do manipulate in all the situations. Only the levels of hypocracy depend on the people we are facing. For example if we are with freinds we are least hypocrit, same goes when you are with your spouse and family. Next at work you are well behaved hypocrit as nobody should catch you. In front of your Boss you are the worst hypocrit. 
Thus, the moral of all the crap i have written above is that BE YOURSELF means "BE YOURSELF as required by the person you are facing"


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  1. nandyj007May 2, 2009 at 4:42 PM

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  4. Sachin PatilMay 4, 2009 at 2:18 AM

    Be urself,
    Term itself taken in wrong way here, according to me… ‘be urself’ Generally people use these words in case if, u r devlopin some skills in u, eg, learning some art form..or participate in some sport… developing some qualities in u like leadership.. it means u can take influences frm good things/people while developing all those skills in u, but don’t copy them.. try & be urself while taking positives frm them..this will help to bring best deliverables frm u..
    be urself doesn’t necessarily mean how u shud react in certain situation.. for reacting on particular situation u can be anything yaar..hw does it matter..

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  5. MayureshMay 4, 2009 at 6:20 PM

    Hey "Be Yourself"...
    this is very difficult to be yourself but its best wen u can do it... as many things around us alws influence us to do d things dat might not b our choice.but well dats life as we r socially bonded v cant deny or reject d influence due to surrounding or close ppl around us.u cant just make everybody happy just bcoz u think what others will feel if i do this n all dat crap...
    being urself will give u dat satisfaction dat u r living on ur own conditions and not d conditions set for u by others.for this u need a lot of self confidence and conviction..but it doesnt mean u need to be selfish as u shud give frank opinions, ur own ideas and courage to do what is rightand not wat others want from u...
    dats d way it should b...

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  6. nandyj007September 12, 2009 at 2:01 PM

    kya baat hai yaara.. mast likha hai.. sushant ka part bhi achcha hai.. :-)

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